“I have guided hundreds of funerals, but I will never forget this one moment…”

The Funeral Director’s Story

The funeral director says he has become accustomed to funerals, and that death no longer frightens him the way it once did. Yet he still feels a strange sense of dread whenever he attends the funeral of a young man. He recounts:

“That day I was at the funeral home, preparing for the burial of a young man who had suddenly died in a car accident. The whole family was in turmoil, but something strange caught my attention in the crowd.”

There was a young man sitting in a corner, not speaking to anyone, his face pale and tears streaming uncontrollably. He stared at the sink as if his heart was breaking apart. He quietly approached me and asked, in a broken voice: “Excuse me, may I help wash the body?” I asked him if he was related to the deceased, and he replied: “We were more than brothers; we were always together.”

I let him in, and he just kept crying, repeating: “Why, my friend? You promised not to leave before me.” I began washing the body as usual, and he assisted me skillfully and gently, as if he were a professional washer—even though I was sure this was his first time. Everything in his face revealed his deep, sincere love for the deceased young man.

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